I'll tell ya girls.... raising a
pre-teen is not EASY AT ALL.
Since I have become a mom, 12 years ago, I reach these points where I think to myself "MAN, HOW DID MY MOM DO IT". Well this has been the biggest WOW yet.
I'm going to talk about slumber parties and cramming for exams. :)
Slumber Parties
Ok seriously.. I like to tell myself that we weren't as bad and Abby and her friends are.. but something tells me that we really were. Abby's birthday was Tuesday so I let her have her 1st slumber party this past weekend. There were 5 girls there (including Abby) so I though..
ok, this won't be that bad... there's just 5 right?? WRONG... 5 little smart mouth... DRAMA QUEENS... I told them, that there were a couple of rules... Nothing to drink upstairs but water or sprite and no nail polish.. Our house is still VERY new to us. :) Well.. that just went in one ear and out the other... I'm not sure when the girls went to bed sometime around 2:00 I think. Lance and I were in bed way before that. One of the girls had to get up and leave early for church, so I got up around 8:30 and went upstairs to get her up.... and WOW.. our bonus room was trashed. I found pizza crust on the floor... chewed up bubble gum on the bathroom tile, candy rappers EVERYWHERE. Diet Pepsi cans (
that's not Sprite or Water). And Lance said that when we was
vacuuming afterwards that he
vacuumed up a bunch of NERDS.
As upset as I was.. I paused and was taken back about 22 years or so, when
Cayce and Marty climbed up on top of the pool table and threw potato chips all over the bonus
room. I'm sure that some of you can remember that. I know my mom still does... and she reminded me of that the other day. "SORRY MOM".. Again, I think.. how did my mom do it.. because you all know, I had a TON of slumber parties.. with like 15 girls at a time... Does anyone remember my 17
th birthday, when I had 17 girls spend the night and we had the cops called on us. Most of you that read this were there. :) Anyways... I know that I am one of the first to have a daughter that is 12... and I know that it's not going to get any easier..So.. Good luck to you all.
Now, lets move on to exams. With Abby in the 6
th grade, this is the first time that she has had to take exams. We were studying for 4 hours last night. 2 of those on 1 subject. SCIENCE. (Thanks to Anna, I did pretty good in that class). Again, sitting there on the couch with her thinking " no wonder my mom wanted to kill me all the time". Abby is just like me... doesn't like to study.. but will cram it all in for exams. Pray for her.. they are today and tomorrow.
Point of this is to THANK YOUR MOMS.. for putting up with us over the years... thank them for putting up with me too. :)
Oh, and
btw, Ally is doing good too. She is just trying to stay our of Abby's way. :)
Hope everyone has a safe and HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!